Cheating on smalldicks

For women living with a smalldick it can be frustrating to show passion and understanding for him but never getting the pleasure they hope for and need. The most depressing thing is that it will never get better, trying or hoping will not help. Knowing that makes the frustration grow and the dream of having real sex - if even for just one time in life - grows too.

So it is natural women think and fantasize about cheating their bf/husband.

"We dont have sex, he's got a small manhood, but everything else is perfect. Should i have an affair?I married my husband in April of this year. He has a very small penis and I find it a total turnoff. I am so torn, I care about him and doubt I could ever find a partner that I have so much in common with but I am 36 and refuse to live the rest of my life in a sexless relationship. I just cannot have sex with him, he totally turns me off to the point of repulsion. I thought I could live with his penis but I can't. What should I do? Stay married and find myself a lover? We have a perfect relationship in every way but we just don't have sex."

"My boyfriend has a small penis so therefore I'm not sexually satisfied. I love sex, just not with him. I'm afraid I will cheat just to fulfil my needs. What should I do about this dilemma?"

People are always concerned about him, how he will suffer if he is ever told about his small dick. So, what they are really saying is: She should suffer instead, all her life if necessary, She should live without real sex, without orgasms, without happiness. As long as he never needs to suffer.

Most women have a happy sex life, simply because most boyfriends and husbands have normal penises that can satisfy them. Why should a woman live her life without that pleasure, just because she has a smalldick for her bf/husband?

Today emancipation, womens rights and equality are established in laws and regulations but fact is in many countries, for many hundred of years, women had a right few mention today: The right to divorce - even in countries that normally did not allow divorce - a man who could not fulfil his marital obligations, ie be a sufficient lover. Today, in a modern society, should women abandon that right and stay suffering and unsatisfied, not even allowed to talk about the problem, just to make sure he is not hurt?

All kinds of medias, TV, magazines, sites and even newspapers have sex advices, there are sex terapeuts, some are even financed by tax money. Because we realize that sex is not just some entertainment, it is an important part of a relationship, not to mention the breeding function. But for women with smalldicked partners, all that should just be non-important, for the reason of not hurting him.

"I think you're being very selfish." So common reply when women explain their situation. For women who dated a smalldick: Did he ever tell you in advance that he has a small dick, did he give you the chance to cancel the date before it was too late? The bf or husband you have, did he tell you, did he ask you, did he ever show he cared if you were satisfied in bed? If you have the same situation as the women above, not getting satisfied, he probably never did.

Smalldicks in the phase of still trying to deny their shortcomings and trying to convince themselves that their dick is normal, never talk about the possibility of not satisfying their partner. No matter how openly they talk about other things in their relationship, when it comes to their dicks, they never ask or mention it. They try to ignore her feelings, just having sex thinking of themselves.

Having sex becomes a thing for his pleasure, he selfishly continues to ignore her needs, wishes and feeling. He lets her pretend it is ok, never giving her any chance to talk about her feelings. He never hears the words "I think you're being very selfish." He is the failure in bed but the victim is the woman.

It is not her fault he is too small to give her the sexual pleasure she has the right to have. The one failing to do his duties should do whatever he can to compensate for that. If he does not do that, he simply does not deserve your thoughtfulness and compassion. It is time to realize that he is the selfish one in the relation. He does not only deny her sexual pleasure at one single occasion, he tries to make her live all her life in sexual frustration, if he has any suspision that she might not be satisfied.

And she can be sure he has. Never think the thought that he does not know that he has a small dick. He has measured it, he might have been rejected or disappointing women in bed before, he has seen the difference of other men's penises since he was in school, read about it, so he knows. But it is easier and nicer for him not to talk to her or care for her.

Still this does not mean he has a happy sex life. He worries how long it will take before she will do something about her life. Because he knows about his shortcomings. The suggestion "Don't tell him the truth how small he is" is the most stupid advice because he already knows how small his dick is and he is waiting to hear the truth, knowing it will come sooner or later. Fact is, when he finally hears her telling him, he will become a happier and more relaxed person, if even not immediately. When he has learned to accept his lack of manhood, he will adjust to it. It will take some time before he does, but it will be the end of his life-long self denying, his days of pretending and lying to himself will be over. He no longer will feel the pressure to perform what real man can, he no longer has to compete with them.

When he does not do anything about the situation, she needs to do it instead.

The best is of course if she can talk to him but depending on his personality this could be most difficult. Some smalldicks are still not ready to hear the truth. Some never will be. They have developed so much anger and tried so much to convince themselvees that they are real me so it is simply not possible for them to accept the truth.

If she states that it will not be possible to tell him the truth, she must look for another way to have a sexually healthy life. In a relationship honesty and fidelity is the most important but fact remains, he is not honest to her, ignoring his lack of the manhood she has the right to have. Finding a lover might be the only way for her to have the sex life other women take for granted. The alternative is to leave him.

"Any woman married to a man with a small dick will be sexually frustrated until she finds a lover."