Getting the blowjobs you deserve

While other needs are taken seriously, for many people giving/getting blowjobs seems to be something men should be happy to have, like a gift but nothing they can demand or expect to have whenever they need and want. There are many reasons why men do not get the blowjobs they want and deserve.  Women have many reasons to hesitate to suck cocks and they also do not understand the need to appreciate the men's penises enough to suck them as much and as well as they should.

When men lived and felt like men

For centuries or even thousands of years, men were the authorities in the family. They worked, earned the money and did the "masculine" things while the women took care of the home. Men made the rules, they also decided when to have sex. Sex was a duty for women and the only important thing was men's pleasure. For a man who decided to get blowjobs from his wife, it was probably easy to make her obey.

Women's liberation

Then the emancipation of women started. Women demanded the same rights as men, no longer accepting to be obedient and discriminated. They had to fight for their rights and to justify their demands by showing men's bad actions, decisions and behaviours. Men became the targets, it was - and still is - ok to talk about men in derogatory terms. We have all heard the expression "men are pigs".

The beauties and the beasts

Women have always developed their feminine side, men their masculine side. Nowadays, the traditional roles of women and men are not as easy as before, women are working, men are doing household chores, women have to do what only men did before and vice versa. For men it can be a problem to live up to all expectations, some of them mean that they will have to be less manly. On one hand, women want the men to be manly, acting like men and on the other hand they also want men to be soft, doing all the things only women did before. And they are easy targets, any man who tried to do household chores like cleaning, taking care of babies or cooking knows it only took minutes before he was criticized and corrected by his wife. Men are still regarded as unsensitive, rough and even dirty if they are sweat after working. Women have become even more feminine although they do the traditionally manly things, very much because of the influence from the fashion and cosmetic industri. So they are still the feminine, beautiful women while men are the beasts and pigs they always were, no matter how they try.

Women were the discriminated, innocent and wonderful ones that now are liberated. We can all agree that women should be regarded and living as equals to men, the negative consequence of all arguments about men is however that men can always be blaimed and insulted, even if they are innocent, in ways that would be impossible to do against women. Men are never worshipped or praised for being manly, sexy or handsome like women are for being sexy and beautiful. While women are attractive and delicious to kiss and lick, men have bad reputation of being almost disgusting to touch.

The whore feeling

When a man is about to lick a woman's pussy, he can do it simply because he wants to do it or because she wants him to do it. It is just a part of having sex together.

For a woman to suck a man, it might not just be a sexual thing. She might feel that he does not respect her, he does not treat her like anything but a whore if he asks her to suck him.

Women always had to make sure not to show when they were horny. They have always been described as whores, cheap sluts if they showed too much of their sexuality. By refusing to suck cocks she shows her virtue and dignity, she is not too desperately horny, she is not a slut who is used to suck cocks.

Men have always used prostituted women for their sexual pleasure. A typical thing for a prostituted women to do, is to suck cocks. Refusing to suck cocks is a way for her to show that she is in no way a whore.

Watching porn

Porn movies make men horny as they show the ideal sex scenes for men. The women are willing, they accept to be fucked in any positions and holes and they never disappoint the men by refusing to suck them and eat their sperms.

For two reasons, the porn movies focus so much on men's pleasure:

1.  Most porn customers are men, so the movies are made to satisfy the customers - the men - by showing scenes they like to watch.

2.  The camera cannot capture when a woman cums. It is easier to show how a man gets horny and how he cums, close-ups of his penis not only show; they also prove how horny he is and how his penis cums. The viewers never know if the female actors really cum or if they fake orgasms.

Many men can find a woman and start to have sex with her minutes after. This is exactly what happens in the movies. No personal feelings, no foreplay.

For women, watching porn can be a great turn-off and a confirmation of how bad men are, just as they have learned  already. They know too, that the scenes in the movies are exactly what men love to watch:

The man, no matter how fat, old, ugly or even smalldicked he is, finds a sexy woman who is willing to have sex with him immediately. Without showing any love or personal emotions, he starts to fuck her any way he wants. She accepts all positions without ever complaining. When it is time for him to cum, he tells her to suck him until he cums in her mouth. As soon as she has swallowed his load, the movie stops. Whether she has had enough orgasms or not has no importance.

For a woman who is asked to suck a man, remembering scenes like that, it is not likely to make her excited to be or do like the porn actresses.

Penis envy

Women demand equality, to have the same rights and possibilities as men. But there is one thing that only men have: Penises. In sex, the penis is the tool that makes the most important sexual act - intercourse - possible. His penis is what gives her the orgasms while he can have orgasms not only by her pussy but also her asshole, mouth or by jerking off. She does not feel she has any part as vital as he has with his penis.

As cock sucking gives the impression of worshipping the cock even if that is not the woman's intention, refusing to suck him is a way to ignore or diminishing the importance of his penis. The less important his penis is, the more equal and independent she can feel and he will also regard her as that.

For women with boyfriends or husbands, dildos might seem unnecessary, still millions buy them every year. Purchasing a dildo could be a way for women to become more independent of their boyfriends/husbands, they know they need a penis but they have their own, the men will not be able to control them as their penises are no longer necessary.

Sexual pleasure

With the women's liberation the right to a nice sex life also grew. Men learned how women needed pleasure too, they no longer accepted to have sex on men's terms. Today it is all about her needs in the sex advice articles. Men have to do all they can to please the women.

When searching for ways for men to have good blowjobs, not even there you will find advices focusing on having blowjobs. Instead they tell you all about how to please her. Then, maybe, you will have a blowjob. Read below an example about getting better blowjobs. Just do not believe too much of it. It seems to be written by women wanting more pleasure, tempting men with a blowjob, if the men do everything for them first. An effective way to make men adjust to women's wishes and demands if they want a blowjob.

Five Tips To Get More, And Better, Blowjobs

Once you’ve made that mental shift, I’ve discovered five easy but effective things that you can do to make her love going down on you. This will lead to her giving you more oral sex, and being MUCH more enthusiastic when she goes down on you.

TIP #1: BE OBSESSIVE ABOUT HYGIENE AND GROOMING

It sounds obvious, but many women still complain that they don’t enjoy giving their boyfriends blowjobs because of bad odors and tastes. And if going down on YOU is physically unpleasant for her, she’s not going to want to do it.

So – make sure to always keep your pubic hair trimmed shortly (to prevent them from getting stuck in her mouth). And be sure to shower often so that you taste good for her. And if for some reason you’ve been sweating a lot and you know that there might be a bad odor or taste, DON’T LET HER GO DOWN ON YOU! Although it’s tempting to try and get oral sex right then, in the long run it’ll hurt you. She’ll remember the bad experience, and will be reluctant to go down on you next time.

Instead, take a shower before sex or just wait until next time. She’ll appreciate it and will give you more blowjobs because of it.

TIP #2: GIVE HER ORGASMS THROUGH ORAL SEX

The 2^nd most common reason women don’t give you oral sex often is that you’re not giving THEM oral sex very often. So they start thinking, “why should I go down on him when he never goes down on me?” Or, if they are getting oral sex they’re not having ORGASMS through oral sex. And because they’re not getting the sexual satisfaction they want, they’re reluctant to give any in return.

The solution: learn to love giving women oral sex. It’s the fastest and easiest way to give her orgasms, and it can be very exciting for you to make her cum like this. And be sure to learn the skills to give her orgasms through oral sex. If you can really blow her mind with oral she’ll be eager to blow yours in return. In the Sex God Method, I show you 17 super-effective techniques for giving her orgasms through oral sex.

TIP #3: USE THE 69 POSITION

The 69 position is great because she can feel the sensations of receiving oral sex at the same time that she gives it. This causes her to associate feelings of intense sexual pleasure with giving you a blowjob. It’s an incredibly powerful motivator for her to go down on you – after you’ve done this a few times she’ll get wet every time she thinks about your cock in her mouth.

Despite this, many guys don’t use the 69 position because they don’t know the little details that can REALLY make it feel good. So here are a few tips for a great experience with the 69 position:

- The 69 position most women will like best is with the man on the bottom, and her on top. In this position, the angle can make it difficult because you have to strain your neck to access her clit. To prevent this, prop your head up with a few pillows. This will make you more comfortable during 69, and allow you to give her oral for longer.

- If she stops giving you oral sex, stop giving it to her as well. This will train her to keep giving you stimulation even when she’s feeling intense pleasure.

- Experiment with variants of the 69 position. Most women will prefer to be on top, but some women prefer to have the man on top. And some women will prefer both of you to be on your sides. Try these out and see which one is best for you.

TIP #4: HAVE HER USE A VIBRATOR WHEN SHE GOES DOWN ON YOU

Another great way to associate sexual pleasure with giving you a blowjob in her mind is to use a vibrator on her as she goes down on you. Here’s the best way to do this:

Buy a small vibrator that can be inserted inside her, which has a cord long enough so that you can hold the controller as you’re getting the blowjob. Then as she starts to go down on you, start giving her stimulation from the vibrator on the lowest setting.

As you start feeling more and more pleasure, start turning up the speed of the vibrator more and more. When you’re about to finish, turn up the intensity of the vibrator to the highest speed. This will really drive her wild, and will make your orgasm an exciting experience for her as well. If you do this enough times, you’ll cement the link between feeling pleasure and going down on you in her mind. This will cause her to get dripping wet every time she thinks about sucking your cock.

TIP #5: GIVE HER MULTIPLE ORGASMS AFTER SHE GOES DOWN ON YOU

The most powerful way to make her associate sexual pleasure with giving blowjobs is to reward her with multiple orgasms after she gives you a blowjob. If you can rock her world with amazing sex afterwards, she’ll start to think of oral sex as the way to get those orgasms she craves.

I had one woman who I got giving me oral sex CONSTANTLY because I made the association between her giving me a blowjob and having amazing sex so strong in her mind. Whenever the compulsion to get those multiple orgasms again hit her, she would rip off my pants and start giving me amazing head. She actually started doing it every morning to wake me up…and let me tell you, waking up with a beautiful woman sucking your cock is the best way to start the day.

Of course, in order to do this you need to know HOW to give her multiple orgasms. You need an arsenal of techniques to make her orgasm through finger stimulation, through oral sex, and most importantly through intercourse.

Following the advices above, you can be sure she will always find a reason NOT to give you a blowjob. And if you still get one, you will probably be to tired after all showering, licking and giving her multiply orgasms to want that blowjob.

It is time to think about you as a man, your cock and your needs.

Being a man

You are a nice guy, you love her and you accept her as she is. You are attracted to her, you are turned on by her, just as she is.

She should feel the same for you if she really loves you. She should love everything about you. There is no reason to be anything but yourself. You are a man and she should be happy to have you. If you are sweat or you have pubic hairs, so what? It is you, the man she loves, you should not have to shower and shave just because you need a blowjob. There is no reason you should have to worry about things like that when it is time for a blowjob. If she is not used to smell a man's sweat, it is time she gets used to it. She will love your body, your smell and to give you blowjobs when she has learned to see you as you really are: A sexy, masculine man, whom she should love, cherish and be happy to have. There is nothing about you she should not love, she only has to learn. Women love and need men, they were just not taught to love them totally. But you will teach her.

Explaining our need of blowjobs

We all make jokes about sex. One of the most popular sex joke topics is about blowjobs. Both women and men talk about blowjobs like a naughty thing, it is almost never mentioned as a serious thing. The opinions about blowjobs mostly seem to be a nice thing for men but not a thing they can demand to have or to talk about openly with their partner. Blowjobs are not regarded as needs.

Men and women have different sexual needs and pleasures. The most important difference is: You have a penis, she does not. You cannot expect her to know or understand how your penis needs to be pleased and how it needs to cum. But you can explain to her.

Explain to her that as a man, your penis is the most sensitive and demanding part of your body, how you need to have it  stimulated. Men touch, rub or/and masturbate their penises several times a day. This is a physically necessary thing to do, keeping up the blood circulation and for the sexual needs. She has to understand that your needs might appear much more frequently than her sexual needs, if you do not tell her this she might never understand your needs if she only gets horny a few times a month. There are differences, she needs to know that your needs are there, you did not create them, you do not lie about them, your needs are real, serious, they are both physical and mental needs. 

Explain to her, seriously. This is no time for penis or blowjob jokes. Talk to her like you would do about any other important matter. This is about your need. A need she has to understand. It might be easy for her to understand if you ask her to remember one time when she was very horny and really needed to cum. How would she feel if she had no chance to cum then? This is how you feel every day. Not cumming will make you feel desperate, unsatisfied, restless and sometimes even depressed. Cumming will make you relax, having a release of pressure and you will be able to focus on other things, not feeling unsatisfied and distracted any more.

She might ask if masturbating or fucking could give the same result. Fucking will, you can say. But not always. There are times you want to fuck but - just like her - not always. It is nice to fuck but for several reasons it is not an alternative every time you need to cum. When you need to cum, she does not necessarily feel in the mood for fucking. The great thing about blowjobs is that she does not need to be horny to suck you. She can do it any time, even if she has her period. When you need to cum it does not mean you want to fuck, sometimes you need to cum quickly, without having time to find condoms first or getting in sex positions. You just want to lie down, relax and focus on your needs without physical activity. Sometimes you are tired, another reason why it is better to lie down and rest while she sucks you.

You have been masturbating, so much. But fact is, you have her now. Having to masturbate instead of being sucked feels incomplete.  It was a lonely thing to masturbate before you met her, Lonely, single men masturbate. Masturbation is sex, fucking and sucking is sex too. Having sex in any way should be together. Not alone, not with other partners. That is why masturbating is not a good choice. It would feel - both for you and for her - as you have sex without her. She might even think you are fantasizing about other women or that you do not want to have sex with her if you do.

This explanation might take time and maybe she will say it is all about your needs, not hers. It is, you can agree. Later she can tell you about her needs and wishes, maybe she has some she never told you about. Then you will listen to her. You can make each others dreams come true together.

Right now your dream is to live your life with her, not needing to jerk alone and without her knowledge, having to do it in the toilet behing a locked door.

Your dream is to be able to get sucked when you need, not hoping in vain, getting frustrated by having a dream that never comes true.

Your dream is to be loved for the one you are, to know and feel that she loves you the way you love her, without limitations, loving to kiss and lick her anywhere. How would she feel if you showed or said you do not want to lick her body, you feel disgusted by her in any way? Her first thought would be: You do not love her.

It is not your fault that women - maybe she too - are taught that men are dirty pigs, disgusting to lick or suck. Fact is: You are not and it feels depressing to think that is how she might feel about you. Because you never feel like that about her.

You are a man, a nice man with a nice body and a nice penis. You have nothing to feel ashamed about and you have no reason to let anyone make you feel like anything else than the man you are. You would never let her feel anything but wonderful and delicious about herself, you also want to feel you are all that to her.

It is not your fault that blowjobs are associated with whores and the use of women in degrading ways. You neither created prostitution or porn movies. Whatever she thinks about when she hears the word "blowjob", you want it for the reasons you said, nothing else. You have no intention to degrade her, make her a whore or to treat her as anything but your equal. She should know you better than that. When you say you need blowjobs, that is what you need. As a part of your relationship and as a part of your love for each other.

You do not doubt her love for you but for a man to feel a woman sucking his cock the feeling of being loved becomes complete, the feeling of being totally loved. The penis is the pride of a man, having it loved and pleased makes him feel she is happy and proud about it too.

If she learns to love your penis, it will be the ultimate happiness. Because you actually feel your penis is your gift to her. You love to give it to her when you fuck, to give her orgasms. Sucking and kissing it will make you feel sure about how she loves it for the pleasure she has from intercourse. It will make you more eager to give her even more pleasure next time you fuck her.

Intercourse

One of the most important reasons she does not want to suck you is: You fuck her.

When you fuck her instead of making her suck you, you give her pleasure. If she can decide, she will always want to fuck instead of sucking you. Then she has orgasms and pleasure like she will never have if she just sucks you. If you let her have intercourse every time you are both horny, she will think sucking you is not necessary. You will only have sex when she is horny and only intercourse. If she wants sex less often as you, there will be no pleasure for you when she does not want sex. It is important that she is willing to give you pleasure also when she does not want to fuck, those times she must remember that you need to cum, by having blowjobs.

Keep her horny

You have your cock and she needs it. If you let her have it whenever she wants it, she will not appreciate or love it. Your cock is your power, using it well will make her desire it and serve and please it.

Talk about your cock. Do not exagurate when you do but tell her how hard, how horny it is, how it needs to cum. Make her think and fantasize about it.

Just be careful not to fuck her every time. Just because you need to cum does not mean you can or want to fuck her. But you need to cum.

When she is horny it does not mean you can or want to fuck her. She will take for granted you will fuck her when she wants if you always agree, then she will have the full control and you will never have any blowjobs.

She can have the pleasure from your cock but she needs to adjust to pleasing it first. Today you are tired but horny, you just want to lie down. If she sucks it well, later this week you will make her cum so nicely, fucking her, you can say.

She will be more willing to learn to suck you well if she is horny. If you let her cum it might take days or weeks before you can make her suck you again.

The more you can make it a routine to be sucked, the longer you can extend the times between fucking and letting her cum. She will become more horny and willing to suck you. When you let her be fucked once or twice a month, she will be thankful, appreciating and loving you and your cock more.

Reward her, commend her and encourage her

Buy her some roses. Not because she gave you that blowjob but because she made it so nice for you, because she showed how she loves you. Let the words "cock" and "blowjob" be omitted but make sure she understands why you are so happy.

Commend her after she has sucked you. If she did not do it well the first time or if it was difficult for her, you must still show how happy you are because she tried. Tell her she will do it perfectly soon, it will be easy for her to do when she is used. Always tell her how much you love her, how fantastic she is after she has sucked you. As she gets used and better, tell her, in details how she has improved, how she makes it better than before, how impressed you are. When she does not suck you exactly like you want, do not critizise her. Instead you can say: Can you do like you did before, it was so nice when you sucked faster/deeper.

Make her love your cock

Getting used to have your cock in her mouth, she will love it. At first, until she is used, keeping it clean is necessary but when she is used to suck it, she will do it even if you did not clean it first. You can mention how horny you have been today, maybe she can smell it. Do not use or let her use words like "dirty" "bad smelling" or derogating words about you. She should learn to lick and suck your cock, balls and crotch. If they smell, they smell sexy because you are horny. You will love it even more when she has learned to go down to lick and suck you when you are sweat and smelling. Knowing there is a little pee on your cock head when you watch her lips around it, starting to suck you, will make you more horny.

Knowing you can always tell her to suck you without showering first when you need a quick blowjob by a woman who loves your cock more than anything, is a wonderful feeling.

Blowjobs for your pleasure, not her

When you train her to become a perfect cock sucker, it is important you both remember that blowjobs are for your pleasure, not her. She will have her pleasure when you fuck but when she sucks you, it is only about your pleasure. When she learns to focus on your pleasure, she will do it without caring about herself. You might have to help her to take all of your cock in her mouth, to hold her head even if she almost gags. Always compliment her and remind her that it is only difficult at first, later she can make all of your cock slip into her mouth without problems. If she complains, be understanding, tell her you understand that it is difficult but she can almost do it now. Make her continue by telling her she already has improved so much. Tell her you know it is difficult but make sure it does not mean you will let her stop sucking. Tell her you know she can do it. When she has learned to suck you perfectly you will be happy you did not let her give up. Then you will have the perfect pleasure every day.

Swallowing your sperm

A blowjob is not perfect unless she swallows your load. The moment you cum you want to know that she does not waste your sperm but holds her mouth open, ready to take it. When  you want, you should be able to tell her to keep it on her tongue and show it to you until you tell her to swallow it. You both waited for that cum, the climax of your blowjob.

Making her swallow your cum might be the most difficult part. Later, when she loves every part, every scent and every taste of you, she will love it. But at first she might hate the taste. Let her taste just a little at first but never to suck you without tasting it. She will get used and like it even if it takes time.

If she is already used to smell and taste your lower parts, it is easier for her, the sperm will be just one more taste from you.

Ask her, was it much, was it thick, was it delicious? Show her your interest in your sperm. If you do not mention it, she might feel it is a disgusting thing you do not want to think about. Share the interest of your sperm with her, tell her how thick it looked on her tongue, talk about it with encouraging, positive words. Tell her before she sucks how much you have for her tonight.

Watching you in a new perspective

When giving you blowjobs become a daily routine, the way she looks at you and think about you will change. You have become more important to her, the man she now cares for like never before. If all other things in your relationship are the same as before, she will feel the same as before but with one new task in life: To care not only for you like before but to care for your cock. Your cock is important now, and important thing for her to please every day. She has a new responsibility, she knows you will tell her every day when it is time for a blowjob. It does not really matter if sucking your cock is niice or a little disgusting to do, she will still be fascinated to think about doing it. If you make sure never to let her have any days not sucking it, she will think more and more about you and your cock. She will care more about you, reminded every day of the importance of your pleasure and she will be horny thinking of you telling her when it is time for sucking. Your cock will be on her mind most of the time. Make a simple test: Pass her naked on your way to or from the toilet and watch how her eyes will go to your cock. This is only the beginning, later you will be able to make her please parts of you that you never thought were possible. With her new role as your cock sucker she will develop an admiration for you that can turn into worship. Later you will be able to let her lick your ass and suck your toes, just take your time and extend your pleasures and her duties slowly. Soon she will be thankful for any part you let her lick and for any juices from you she can taste.

You deserve it

It might seem selfish, making her your devoted cock sucker. If it does, maybe it is because men are not taught to care for their needs.

You only need to think about how horny you get, how your cock needs to cum well, to realize that this is exactly what you deserve. Why should you go through life not having the pleasure your cock deserves, a woman's mouth sucking your fantastic, manly cock.  When you have cum in her mouth after she has sucked you well, you will think: This was exactly what you needed.

Your gift to her

What could be a happier, wonderful gift for her than your cock and your nice, thick cum? It is your daily gift to her. You are giving her the best of yourself, your sexy, manly cock to taste, lick and suck. You allow her to touch and feel your most private parts and let her have time to stay so close to your masculine body.

Her pleasure, a pleasure she should appreciate more than anything, is the pleasure of sucking your cock, of tasting your body, scents and juices. She will be forever thankful and eager to taste you more and more. It is a nice gesture if she thanks you every day for all you give her of yourself.

You know best

Sometimes you just want to relax when she sucks, sometimes you want to face-fuck her, keeping your cock as deep in her mouth as possible, holding her head with your hands. When it is difficult for her, you both need to remember that this moment is for your cock. You will feel and know what gives you the nicest pleasure. She can relax when you have cum but until then your cock has the priority. The better you can cum, the happier she will be too, knowing she did her best for your cock. You need and deserve the best pleasure for your cock.

The blowjob moments have only one purpose: To make your cock have all attention, all pleasure and to cum as well as possible after waiting all day for her mouth.

Comments

All you can do is make it clear you'd find it really hot/sexy if she did, and try to be understanding of the reasons she might not want to. In the end, it is her decision whether or not she will do this. That said, assuming you keep yourself clean, I think it might be worth your time to figure out why she doesn't want to, because maybe it will help you and her work through her not wanting to, change her mind and get you blow jobs.
Is it because she doesn't know how to do it? Is it because she is scared of swallowing? Is it because of she thinks it is a trashy thing to do? Did she have a bad expereince? If the two of you can be open about her reasons for being scared/disgusted etc, you might be able to explain away these reasons. Ex. If she doesn't want to swallow, letting her finish with her hand or telling her you'd still appreciate her giving you a blowjob even if she doesn't swallow might help. If she doesn't know what she's doing, (i personally think she needs to take the initiative and do some research) but maybe just your being aware of the fact she is learning might help (sexy lesson time! ). If she's up for watching porn, go for it. Also you could just see if she can slowly incorporate a little bit of tongue/mouth action into her blowjob (your appreciation might motivate her to try more) will make her gradually more confident.

Some woman enjoy a lot to be dominated/controlled on the bed. Don't overly dominate/control her to the point that she would stop enjoy being dominated. Be gentle and subtle on her. Just ask. If she says no, don't ask again and again, or else she would never.

Well part of it is getting your girlfriend to understand WHY you would love a blow job in the first place. It's important for girls to understand that guys aren't necessarily asshole, that asking for a blow job is completely normal.

Create Special Occasions: Birthdays mean you get a blowjob – that's a given – so why not create more special occasions? For example go out for a really nice meal, or go on a weekend trip somewhere. Anything like this will put her in a giving mood and you can resort to saying 'awww… but it's [insert holiday day here] today!'. There's even a public holiday called 'Steak and Blowjob Day' (no doubt invented by a man) which certainly can work to your advantage. Similarly your special occasion could be an experiment or something new – for example 'tonight why don't we try roleplay?' or 'tonight why don't we try having sex in the study?'. This way it's a special occasion so you have a ticket to ask for what you want.

If this is the second date and we just hang out to a nightclub or party, before finishing the night I start to creat tension make her really horney (touching her back of her neck, her inner part of the legs, kissing her .......) when I know i have the control and she is getting into me I take the lead and take her hand and put it in my rocking cock. I have never experienced a girl to disagree (remeamber to take the control and her to be horney), some girls start to scratch your cock other girls just put their hand away, in this case you repeat it as many times you consider okay.
So the trick starts here.. When you are in more privicy, in my case the car I start kissing her again repeating all the process before. she will get turned again soooooooooo quickly (I think its kind of an anchor) but when you get to the part where you put her hand in your cock you just wait a few moments until she get used and baaaaaaaammmmmm, you take your cock out. just dont ask her and take her hand and make her put it there. Almost every women will start to masturbate you. Make her more horney and start her scratch her pussy, why she will disagree?? she have her hand in ur cock. And here is where you make the move. After some few minutes if she dont take the lead and give you a blowjob (bealive me most women will think in their heads about that) you make the next move. Start looking at your cock while she masturbate you and go back and look her into her eyes and back again to ur cock, just move your eyes dont move your head, repeat it ....

I think that most women like "giving head", at least from my limited experience 30 yeara ago. However, a lot less like allowing you to ejaculate in their mouth. I have had 2 women do that. One was a past girlfriend and she seemed to do it because I spent a lot of time giving her oral orgasms. I didn't ask her to do it and I don't think she liked it much. However, she did not gag or make a funny face. She was very good at it, so I think she had done it a lot. My wife, on the other hand, likes to do it to me and will do it if I ask or not. I have never asked a woman to do it first.

My wife always liked to give head, but I was the first guy she ever allowed to ejaculate in her mouth. She was also the first woman to do that to me. That was after we had been dating for a few months and were getting really close. We liked to watch porn together and one time the woman swallowed. My girlfriend (wife now) said that was somethimg that she had never allowed a guy to do. She said that no one had ever asked, but she thought that some guys had tried to hide when they were getting close but that she could always tell and would stop. I wish I could remember how I hinted to her, but after a couple of weeks she said, "You want to cum in my mouth, don't you." I said that I would like that and she did it. She didn't like the taste, but found it very erotic and has liked it ever since. Of course, I had always spent a lot of time giving her oral and liked it a lot and she knew that I liked to do it to her.

I know that this doesn't tell you how to bring it up, but if the 2 of you like watching porn together, you might want to get a movie where this happens. By the way, my wife much later discovered mints. Eating a strong mint before makes the taste much better. I think that you are much more likely to get her to do it if you also spend a lot of time giving her oral. My wife got excited at the thought the first time and wanted to try it. Perhaps I was the first guy that she wanted to do it to because I was also the first guy who spent a lot of time giving her oral. Giving her pleasure will greatly increase the chances of her wanting to reciprocate. We have always liked doing that to each other a lot. It is not fair at all to expect what you do not also give. By the way, I would never want to pressure the woman to do it if they don't want to. One girlfriend never got close to giving me oral and I never asked and we had good sex together.

Your cock's pleasure

What could be more important?