This site is totally against penis enlargements

Since I started this site, I have avoided mentioning too much about penis enlargements (PE) because they only make desperate men and smalldicks hope for the perfect penis size, pay cheaters for pills and cures and in the end just get disappointed of the lack of effect and disappointed about themselves and their penises. Trying, hoping and later failing to have a bigger penis can increase the desperation, resulting in new attempts by buying new pills and cures. It is a waste of money, causing disappointment, worries and insecurity. Together these consequences can ruin moments that could be nice, pleasurable sex moments.

The idiom “cannot see the forest for the trees” describes very well how men and smalldicks are cheated into focusing on one thing only: Having a bigger penis, by scammers and cheaters. The Internet is full of them, type any keyword like “penis”, “cock” or “dick” in the search sites and there they appear, promising, convincing you about their magic pills. Open your mail for more reminders from spammers about how you should focus on one thing only: Making your penis bigger.

A bigger penis will solve all problems, they claim. They make you think about your size as something too small, something that should be bigger, you should make it bigger. Then your life and your sex life in particular, will be perfect.

They try to stop you from seeing the full picture, “the forest for the trees”. Sex life and happiness can only be achieved with a bigger penis, they want you to think.

If you have seen the pages in this site, at a first glance they might seem to make you think the same. Bigger is better. It is but there is nowhere I suggest that a smalldick or man is not as happy as a man with a big cock. The happy ones are the ones who have accepted their size, who are not envious of men with bigger penises. The smalldicks and men who have found their place in the male hierarchy, learned to adjust to it, not to change, increase the size or hope to be another kind of men, will have a happy life and nice sex.

The most sad thing about the male enhancement vendors is that they do not let you be the man or smalldick you are. We all have an identity, a personality. We develop our personalities, identities while living. To feel well, to be a person in mental harmony, it is important we have a chance to have our home environment, our families, friends and personal properties. Then we can develop well, to be happy with ourselves and our lives. The PE selling sites want to change you, they tell you you should be another kind of man.

Fortunately, the enlargement pills do not work. If they did, they would put you in situations you were not raised or prepared to handle. If a smalldick suddenly got a 9” cock, he would not feel like a man who had 9” naturally. He would know that this is an un-natural penis, made by whatever chemicals or silicon to become so big. In his mind he would still be a smalldick. Being so big, he now would have to live up to the expectations real men experience. A humble, inferior smalldick with low self confidence suddenly having to act like a strong, dominant alpha male. He would feel – as well as a woman about to have sex with him would feel – something is not right here. His behavior, trying to seem natural, showing a real man’s self confidence would feel as fake as his penis. Real personality and self confidence come slowly, from learning you are a real man with a big cock as teenager, developing self-knowledge, from watching boys’ and girls’ admiring looks, from having sex and from becoming a man with a natural, big cock, just as natural and real as everything else about him.

If the pills worked, would it be enough? “I just want one more inch”, some say. If they had it, would it not be logical to want one more inch, or two? Penis size, getting bigger would still be the solution in their minds, any failure in a sexual situation would be solved if they added another inch or two. No size would feel enough or they would never be satisfied, since the thought would be: Bigger cock means better sex life and happier life.

A happy sex life and a happy life in general is not about getting a bigger penis. It is about learning about your size and to live and have sex with respect and harmony with your size and person. Sex is about having pleasure, all can have it. Watching porn with men with big cocks, it is understandable that men wish they were that big. It is ok to fantasize about being that big, sex is very much about dreams and fantasies but it is important to remember that what the men do in the movies, is what they can do, not you if you are much smaller.

A happy sex life and a happy life in general is about being happy for who you are, for what you have. Not about getting frustrated thinking about how badly we do compared to people with greater talents. In the page Penis size regarded as sport you can read about  the way we think about sport. If we learn to think about sex the way we think about sport, with the champion players, the regular players, playing in lower or higher divisions depending on skills and about the ones who play just for fun, we can even understand that the ones who do not play at all, just watching players, can enjoy sport. Many people love to watch sports, watching their favourite team or players. When they win, they get happy, they hope their idols will win, they watch them with admiration, not envy in any way.

There is however one big difference between sex and sport: Sex is not a contest, the only thing to win is pleasure. Whether you like sport or to sing, first you need to check where you stand. Some have great talents to play or sing, some less. With a smooth voice and good lungs, some can become opera singers. Not having that does not mean they should stop singing. They might be able to sing other kinds of songs, as an artist if they are good enough. If not, they can still sing. Enjoy singing or practicing sport, enjoy watching sport, enjoy listening to songs sung. You can, mostly nobody tells you that you need to change yourself first, like PE sites do.

Depending on skills, talents, people practicing sport or singing do it differently. This is not the same thing as saying that some, who do it more professionally are happier when doing it.

Sex is very much the same, if we think about men with bigger penises the same way we think about our sport idols. We already do, when we watch porn. We love to see the men with big cocks have sex, knowing they are better lovers, making magic with their big cocks. If we think and feel the same way about ALL men, we do not need to be envious or unhappy whatever penis size we have. Just have sex for pleasure, enjoy it, be the lover you can be with your penis. Accept that some men are bigger and better lovers, in almost any other situation we accept that there are some people doing better than we, they earn more, have a nicer car, they look better, they are more skilled, have more experience, more educated and so on. We would get crazy if we were envious of them, thinking about them as being or doing better, so we simply do not care. We try our best, of course but we do not get obsessed about those people who do or are better. But that is exactly what PE sites and vendors want you to do: Get crazy thinking about how much better men are doing with bigger penises.

Do not let them make you envious of men with bigger penises. Forget their promises of perfect sex with a bigger penis. It does not work. PE products billion dollar industry, not because of the effective products but because of the brain washing promotion. Did you ever hear about any brand that was mentioned in the news as an effective PE product? If there was one, you would have heard about it. Compare to Viagra, when it came and was scientifically proven as a working erection pill, the news spread all over the world in no time.

Since PE pills do not work, building up insecurity and frustration among men is the way to get it sold.

They use very much the same methods as weight loss product companies. Every time the people fail to lose weight, the get more desperate. When the next product appears, the hope and think it will work and they buy it. They heard that there are effective products, they just need to find them. The more products they have tried already, the bigger chance the next one will work, they think in a reversed logical way. They already got used to spending money for these products, so the price is no hinder, all the money spent before will be useless if they do not buy this new product that might work, another logical conclusion to them. Nobody is an easier target than a person who has gotten obsessed by trying and failed many times. Pills for weight loss and PE are sold time after time to the same buyers.

It would be a much less profitable business to sell pills that had effect. People would buy one time and never more. Instead they can change the brand names, the company names and sell the same product over and over, with new promises and marketing methods.

Penis enlargement pills have no documented effect.

Source: http://www.statemaster.com/encyclopedia/Penis 

At present there is no consensus in the scientific community of any non-surgical technique that permanently increases either the thickness or length of the erect penis that already falls into the normal range (4.5" to 7").

Source: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Penis_enlargement

Find your position in the male hierarchy, accept it and live as a man in that position. Stop thinking about becoming bigger, think instead about all men who have smaller penises than you and about the smalldicks with their useless small dicks. Be happy for men who have big cocks, show them respect and admiration rather than envy. Be thankful to those of them who let us watch their superior cocks, in this site, other sites and in movies. They are the masters, the champions. In Compare your penis you will see where you stand. If you have 5”, you are and you will stay a 5 incher, accept it, be happy for it. Be happy to be bigger than so many men and smalldicks, be happy for all bigger men to admire.

For many people, small penis humiliation, cuckolding, forcing smalldicks to humiliating tasks, obedience and discipline might seem to be strange ways to have a happy sex life but fact is, it is. But for a smalldick like me, it means a fantastic and happy sex life to submit to superior men and women. Knowing that men with bigger penises have all the pleasure is worth more than anything.

For men with huge cocks, fucking in ways women are not used to be fucked by smaller penises and see their total ecstasy by their massive cocks, being worshipped, licked and sucked by serving sex partners only caring for their pleasure, can give them the happy sex life they deserve.

For all men – bigger than smalldicks – the pleasure for your penis should be the thing to care for, not worries about being big enough to give women satisfaction. Focusing on your penis’ pleasure – and making her focus on it – will help you forget your worries and only care for the important thing: Your penis’ pleasure. Have your penis loved, worshipped and well sucked, read more in this page: Get the blowjobs you deserve You have a real penis, you deserve all the pleasure. You do not deserve to get depressed by PE liars.

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