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The whole
world is hierarchical. Somebody is superior, another is subordinate;
someone naively thinks he does not submit to anyone and does not make
others submit, though all of this is just an illusion. Not everyone wants
to be The Most Superior, but everyone does not want to be The Most
Subordinate, and that is why challenges are inevitable. The challenges
range from physical fights to utterly peaceful confrontation. It is either
we will control the others, or the others will control us, but what does
this depend on? If talking strictly about biological factors, then this
all depends on our rank potential. The rank potential (RP) is a mainly
inborn characteristic of an individual that allows for (or not) taking a
particular level in a hierarchy of a group in specific circumstances. This
potential depends on many factors, among which the physical strength is
particularly important, especially for simpler animals, because it is
never too little of it when solving any arguments; more sophisticated
animals have other factors that are even more important than the strength,
which let them win the battles, so to say, with psychological pressure.
Often the rank potential is clearly marked with a special sign on the body
of an individual, which other members of the group respect, so no
unnecessary fights will occur, if the opponent is clearly higher in the
hierarchy. For example, the wasps have different amount of seta, cockerels
have different height of the crest, and dears have antlers of different
sizes and branching.
Do humans
have such signs?
It
appears they do, even though only males have this sign. It is the phallus;
its size, to be more specific. To be honest, it does not have that,
without exaggeration, absolute power with humans, which such signs have
with the wasps and the cockerels, but when other conditions are equal, it
is quite important. Its importance is clear in the sphere of sexual
relations, and this is very illustrative for our topic.
The importance of the phallus is also confirmed by observations of
apes, and by historical sources that claim that the phallus was always not
only the sign of sexual potency, but also the sign of power and strength.
Many stone-age pictures show males socially ranked higher, with bigger
penises(*). Phallic cults that gave big penises extraordinary abilities
were quite popular with many nations.
Even nowadays phallus-related topics are among most discussed and
interesting for people (sometimes even unhealthily interesting); respect
to bigger penises and disrespect to smaller penises can be observed in all
cultures and at all times, even now. Among the patients of the clinics
that do penis-enlargement operations there are many businessmen that are
mostly concerned about "respectable looks" - because often business is
done in saunas and banyas, where respectable looks often influence the
success of the business, and the respectable looks is connected with all
the characteristics of a high rank, one of which is the penis size.
Similar problems are experienced by male ballet dancers, though, they can
solve it by much simpler means - they can add some wadding where
necessary. It seems to be not prestigious and inappropriate to display to
the revered public something minute at that place. If a man, without any
intention admits the small caliber of his assets, he often risks to
receive something from embarrassed smiles to open snickers, depending on
the intellectual properties of the surrounding people. A well-brought man
will not show any sign of stir, but will feel similarly. But wherefore? Of
course, we can hastily call it an insignificant superstitions, but
ethologists know that the so-called "superstitions" are based on
instincts. Especially those superstitions, that are the same all around
the world. Two clearly separate nations can have similar superstitions
only if they have the same genetic origin; in this case - the instinctive
reaction on the size of the phallus as the measure of Rank Potential. Very
closely related, though out of focus of our topic, is the feeling of
debasement and uneasiness, which surrounds sexual relations. All of this
is due to the close relation between the sexual sphere of human life and
instinctive hierarchy, which I have covered in [5].
The very fact of huge dispersion of sizes, which amounts to 6 to 8
times for quite functional phalluses (from less than 5 to more than 30 cm
(here and further the sizes are of erected penises)), tells us that the
size has a very important bio-signalling role. Especially if we take into
account that the sizes of other organs may differ approximately two times,
and that there is no physiological necessity to have such variety of
phalluses. Because of this, we don't have reasons to doubt that the size
of the penis is an instinctive sign, to which we react unconsciously, so
we must be critical to some extent about the straightforward declarations
of respondents about the significance or insignificance of the phallus
size for them.
Even though instinctive reactions are connected with the VOLUME of
the phallus, and, when talking about penis sizes, we understand the
volume, but because of the difficulties with measuring its volume, lets
use its length as the measure of its "magnitude". Lets also keep at the
back of our minds that penis volume does not relate to its length as
one-to-one (interdependent), even though it correlates to it significantly
(as illustrated with a diagram later on).
(*)
Translator's note: A doubtful reader may even take an example from a
"civilised" society. Just go to a royal armoury to find more recent
evidence of the same meaning of the sign. What can you see on knight's
armours in the place where the bearer's phallus should be? I have seen
some armours in Royal Armoury in Madrid that have a little bulge there,
and some have a horn of characteristic shape protruding upwards. Guess,
who the latter armours belong to?
Where Do They
All Grow From
Physiologically the initial rank potential is determined by the neural,
muscular and other systems of the organism, as well as by the level of
various hormones in blood. One of them that is very important for us in
this discussion, is testosterone, the masculine sexual hormone that
influences aggressiveness and ambitiousness, which are the qualities
describing the male RP most brightly.
At the same time the phallus ultimately gets its size in puberty
period, and is greatly influenced by the level of testosterone in the
organism during this period. The higher the concentration of testosterone,
the bigger the penis will grow! Thus the relation between the two
characteristics is roughly outlined - testosterone (as many other factors)
influences the magnitude of a phallus and other RP signs at the same time.
It is important to note that the level of testosterone changes with time,
and changes differently with different individuals - it can be higher in
early years, giving the owner a bigger phallus, and then decrease to
almost nothing, leaving him without good potency and without "masculine"
looks and behaviour. But it can be vice versa - when the penis needs to
grow, there can be no testosterone in blood, and afterwards the hormonal
locks open, but the flood can't help the phallus grow by that time: We
will not look into the reasons of such variation, because this is a
physiological question (even though it is influenced by psyche), and is
not that important for our topic.
Let us emphasise again that the size of the phallus and the Rank
Potential are influenced by a number of factors (for example, the penis
size differs quite greatly even for newly born boys; as for RP, it depends
on a great number of other things, too), therefore we will only talk about
correlation, and not the direct relation between the phallus size and Rank
Potential.
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NB:
How can
the penis size be determined by other external characteristics of a
male?
Usually it is assumed that there is no such characteristic. I.e.
neither the size of nose, nor feet, nor fingers, nor the length of
the tongue, nor anything else can be related to the penis size.
However, it is not quite so.
On the one hand, there really is no sign that could be used to
express the size of penis in centimetres or inches; more than that,
there is no sign that could give a 100% assurance of its size. On
the other hand, we can reliably talk about the PROBABILITY of that
the penis will be bigger in one case, and smaller in another. These
signs are marking the rank potential in general, and the level of
testosterone in particular. Testosterone is responsible for clarity
and expressiveness of secondary sexual attributes, therefore the
assumption about a big penis is supported by a low loud voice, lots
of hair on the body, strong, athletic build without big amounts of
fat (if there is any fat, then it is disposed in the "masculine"
way, i.e. on the belly, but not on buttocks or thighs), height is
more than average, legs not too long, great physical strength,
specific "masculine" facial features, bold patch for older men. High
RP is mostly described by vigour of movements and deeds, inclination
to be aggressive in any way, behaving ambitiously, displaying often
open and unquenchable interest in females. If, on the contrary, a
male has asthenic feminine, or even eunuch features, has a dull and
passive life, behaves in a conformist way, is shy, then the penis of
such a man will be somewhat smaller than average. Again, we cannot
speak of a 100% assurance, we can only talk about chances.
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Phallus in
Modern Times
Since we rarely see genitals of other people, we physically cannot
build our relations using it as a guide, but the relation between the
phallus size and rank potential (with all the consequences) is a reality!
All this is because, as we have just found out, the size of a phallus is
not that much the antecedent of a high RP, but rather is one of its
consequences. It is only a sign that was chosen by the evolution once as a
convenience for quick visual analysis by other members of a group. Phallus
is a kind of a show-window of the masculine RP; and like any other
show-window it can display the advantages of the goods quite inadequately.
This is what troubles a microphallic male - the brand of low rank on his
body. Especially sore such troubles are when the "show-window" does not
display the real merchandise, i.e. when a little penis is combined with a
decent RP. Napoleon Bonaparte was one of such individuals. However, you
cannot call him a highly ranked male in all respects; in his mosaic of RP
signs his low rank was quite well displayed, which was the reason for his
oppressed state in childhood. But his resulting RP, combined with
significantly high intellect, allowed him to achieve the highest position
of the society, even of the whole world.
Perhaps this is one of the main reasons why in a civil society there
is a custom to cover genitals not only of females, but of males, too, so
as to reduce their influence of this animal and not so precise sign of
power, on civil relations between people. We cannot also dismiss the
theory that the forced use of clothes for people living in cold climate,
which precluded the simple way of building a hierarchy, was one of the
prerequisites of the social progress. Thus, valuable social properties of
an individual (such as altruism) had more opportunities to be appreciated,
in particular - to be inherited by the following generations.
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NB: I
would like to recommend the men not to solve any serious questions
with partners in saunas and banyas, or other situations, where it
would be possible to directly estimate the sizes of genitals of
business partners. Otherwise the business solution can be affected
by a totally irrelevant body sign, which has no relation to the
topic of your negotiations, and which also can have no relations to
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What about
the Primary Function?
Since
for urinating the penis size does not make any difference, we will discuss
only how its bio-signalling function combines with its capacity as a
copulative organ.
To tell the truth, it was said and written a lot about the influence
of the penis size on the sexual life. However, there is still something
new to tell. In [5] I have talked a lot about the influence of RP on
sexual success of a male, so, as we have just found out, since RP is
connected to the size of the phallus, there should be some connection of
the latter to the sexual success. In the following sections we will see,
how exactly the two are related.
Physiological
aspect
When
discussing the influence of the penis size on the sexual life, it is
difficult to resist temptation to assign more physiological capabilities
to a bigger penis, and that is the trap that so many people interested in
the topic, fall in. Indeed, it seems very attractive to assume that the
bigger the phallus, the stronger the pressure is, and consequently, the
more exciting sexual feelings it produces in a woman. But both the medics
and physiologists unanimously claim that main sensitive zones of female
genitals are located outside (clitoris in the first instance) and that a
penis 2-3 (in some circumstances 5) centimetres long is absolutely enough
to excite these zones. In fact, any spot on a woman's body can be an
erogenous zone. As far as the conception itself is concerned, the phallus
as the means of penetration is not necessary at all, since the
spermatozoids are capable of travelling the whole distance to the ovule
even from the external surface of the sexual organs, to say nothing when
there is minimal penetration. Note that almost no healthy man that is not
a hermaphrodite has a penis smaller than 2-3 cm. Since there is no reason
not to believe the physiologists in this matter, we will assume that from
this perspective the penis size has no significance - it just has to be
there (ultimately, even this is not required...). More than that, overly
big phalluses can even be uncomfortable, because they can inflict pain
during the coitus. It may seem that we could cut our discussion at this
point, but let's not haste - because there is also the:
Ethological
aspect
Questioning women about their attitude to the penis size often gives a
contradictory view. On the one hand, most of the questioned deny any
relation between the phallus size and strength of the sexual feelings,
supporting the physiologists' view; on the other hand there are many cases
of total disappointment in the bearer of a small penis right after
unclothing the genitals, sometimes even causing evasion of coitus. More to
that, there are many cases, and not only in folklore, when some women are
fanatically devoted to big phalluses.
However, usually women that are openly discriminating small penises,
are far from extremism similar to the one picturesquely described in
unforgettable "Luka Mudischev"(*). They are often happy with penises
bigger than some sensible length (often about 16-18 cm), which are not
that rare at all. And like we will see later, the women for whom the size
seems to matter, often disregard bearers of small phalluses, but they do
this without even looking at the phallus, and without even thinking about
it! But let's not put cart before the horse...
What could be the reason for such contradiction? Is it only the
cultural level of the woman that affects her attitude to the phallus size?
As I said a few times in [5] and [6], the conclusive factor for a woman to
get sexual satisfaction is the emotional "mood" for that particular male.
The "mood" for that male, as we have found out a long time ago, depends on
many factors, among which one of the front places is occupied by the Rank
Potential of that man, which, in its turn, correlates with... the phallus
size!!! In other words, the big phallus is attractive to such women not
because of its mechanical possibilities to excite sensitive zones, but
because of its ethological influence on instinctive templates of female
behaviour, which count a bearer of a bigger phallus to be a higher ranked
male in average. If there is no such "mood", then normal excitement of
erogenous zones (even with a big phallus!) may have no effect. If, despite
the small penis, the "mood" for that man exists for some reason, then even
a microscopic phallus may suffice. Because such mood can be achieved not
only by high-ranked appearance and behaviour, but also by, for example,
virtuous singing of romances, skilful courting, beautiful facial or
corporal features, or even good talking...
It's not over, though - there is also observational selection. Since
one of the main reasons for not having the right "mood" is the low-rank
behaviour and insufficiently "masculine" looks of a man, the owners of
small penises are denied far away from bed, when the woman cannot even see
the size of his genitals! It is even so for the women that do not
particularly like big phalluses, for example, because of her shallow
vagina, to which a big penis causes a lot of pain. Simply the looks and
behaviour of such a male are not masculine. I want to emphasize that we
are not talking here about disappointing stiffness resulting from the
man's complexes related to insufficiency of his masculine properties, even
though this is the case very often. Rather we are talking here about
objective low rank, which is associated with a small penis biologically.
And vice versa - even being dressed, a male with a big phallus often has
unknown magnetism (for some even mystical), which appeals only the women,
and attracts them, like the light attracts moths...
Therefore, if the things went as far as getting undressed (let's not
talk about cases when it is "necessary" to get laid, even overcoming
disgust), then there is a certain "mood", and consequently some
satisfaction. Thus the size seems not to matter. But this is only an
illusion, observational selection: among microphallic males there are
almost no sexual partners, they seem to be not among men. Yes, women often
furiously defend that even "small ones" satisfy them; but if it is
possible to ask for details, often it appears that under "small" penises
they mean 15-17cm long, which is a medium size. But these are the smallest
among those she saw! On the other hand, because of a similar association
between a big penis and high rank, the owners of bigger penises are chosen
as sexual partners more often, creating a statistical illusion of
prevalency of such males in general.
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That is
the root of all contradiction! First of all, in approximate relation
between the size of the phallus and RP; secondly, in observational
selection, when a certain dame may not suspect the existence of
penises smaller than objectively medium size, and even those she
will consider an exceptional rarity. Thirdly, there is a non-linear
relation between the penis size and attractiveness. That is, if the
size exceeds a certain, comparatively high, minimum, this is merely
desired, and is not always significant; if the size does not reach
this minimum, this may have principally negative consequences.
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However,
sometimes the very contemplation of a small penis may be a repulsive
factor; of course, because it signifies low rank of its owner, not because
of a low estimate of mechanical capacities of a small tool. Looking back
at Napoleon, I can suggest that the difficulties in his relations with
Josephine are coming from her inability to percept him as a high-ranked
male (despite all his achievements); this all being at the same time as
achieving favour of any other woman was not a big deal for him (as a
super-HR).
In the light of said above it becomes clear that only low-ranked
and/or low-primative women will have most friendly attitude to small
penises. High-ranked and high-primative women will be, on the contrary,
biased to choose big phalluses.
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Side
effect: Surgery or any other mechanical penis enlargement will
hardly have any significant effect on sexual successfulness. This is
because it cannot significantly influence the other facial and
behavioural features specific to the bearer's rank. The show-window
(which very little will want to see) in this case will simply lie
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(*)
Translator's note: this approximately means "Luka Bollockson". This is
a famous erotic poem of the beginning of XIX century, in which a sexually
disturbed heroine was dreaming about "no less than 10 vershoks long" (44.5
cm) phallus.
What Now?
Statistics fully confirm the above reasoning. Among sexual partners of
women (here and further- in countries with mostly europeoid population)
the group of males with penises smaller than 11cm constituted not more
than 2-3% of all sexual partners, at the same time there are about 10-15%
of such males in the overall population. On the other hand, over half of
sexual partners are males with big penises (over 20cm), but these also
constitute only about 15% of male population. In addition to that,
according to [2], owners of penises longer than 17.5cm have more than 7
sexual partners a year, whilst owners of penises shorter than 14.3cm
(which is, strictly speaking, a rather mediocre size) - not more than 3.
It is a pity that Edwards did not separate the males into groups with
phalluses shorter than 12, shorter than 8, longer than 22 and longer than
26cm - this would be of particular interest.
Additionally, anyone can estimate the statistics of sexual activity
by specifics of production of condoms. European standard EN 600 requires
production of condoms 44 to 56mm wide (semi-circumvention), which in
average amounts to 28 to 36mm in diameter (a Russian standard, GOST
4645-81, specifies even narrower margins: 50 to 54mm), but the products
less than 52mm wide (this is about 33mm in diameter) are produced in very
small numbers. Shops also offer non-standard products of large and
extra-large sizes.
To reliably secure a condom on a penis, it is important not to
extend it more than by 10%; apart from risk that it will slip off, too
spacious condom significantly reduces sexual feelings. On the other hand,
if it is extended more than 1.5 times, it will cause pain, especially when
putting it on, and there is increased risk of tearing the condom.
Therefore, ideally, condoms should have not less than 4-5 size
steps, starting from 28, and up to 75mm wide, to satisfy the demand of
almost any males, apart from may be the most unique cases. However, as it
has been said before, the products for penises with more than 36mm in
diameter (this is about 12.5cm in length), are almost absent from retail,
even though there are over 15% of such men in the overall population.
There are only 3 condom size steps, from 52 to 70 mm wide, including the
Extra Large. Theoretically this discriminates every seventh or even sixth
man, but we don't hear any complaints. The number of males with big
penises (over 22cm in length) in nature does not exceed the number of
males with small penises (under 12.5cm), and condoms of large sizes are
produced and successfully sold, but the condoms of small sizes are not.
Yes, the owners of "mignons" may be shy to announce their problems, but it
is not possible to blame on this the TOTAL absence of manufacturing of
small condoms, especially prescribed by a standard. This can only be
explained by objective absence of commercially acceptable demand. There is
no demand to have small condoms! Does this mean that the owners of small
penises are totally deprived of sexual life? Of course, it does not. But
almost all of this life is limited to a lawful marriage, in which condoms
are used very rarely, and the sexual life is regulated by written laws,
rather than by instinctive urges.
Primordial sex is almost impossible for such males, which
undoubtedly tells about their low instinctive attractiveness as sires.
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Distribution of sizes of phalluses.
Borrowed from [2].
The lower green line shows the circumvention of a non-extended
standard condom 52mm wide, the higher green line shows the
circumvention of a penis, on which the standard condom will be
secured reliably without adding unpleasant feelings. It is apparent
that for at least 15% of males the standard condom (actually, the
smallest available) is too big. XXL - the circumvention of a
non-extended condom of extra-large size. The higher blue line is the
higher margin of comfortable use of such condom.
Above the specified margin there are only singular exemplars.
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So...
Thus we
can consider the correlation between the penis size of a male and his rank
potential well explained (at least for sexual relations, where the rank
potential is expressed in sexual success and demand of such a male).
Indeed, the owners of big penises are more attractive to women, and
therefore they satisfy them sexually more often, but the reason of this is
not in the mechanics of the coitus itself, but in association between the
penis size and the male's rank potential, on which depend the
aforementioned attractiveness and satisfaction. Also the association is
two-way. On the one hand, a male is percepted as high or low-ranked only
because of his possession of a smaller or bigger penis (a visual sign of
his rank). On the other hand, the penis size INDEED reflects with certain
probability the biologically determined RP of a male, and this potential
is seen and felt even without observing his genitals, which biases the
choice of males with bigger penises for coitus without actual estimate of
the penis size. The complexes of microphallic men about the insufficiency
of the size of their penises, is secondary; it only emphasizes the laws
mentioned above, and it is not its cause.
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