Please don't lie to us smalldicks

No matter how honest a woman is, when it comes to telling her bf or lover what she really thinks about his penis size, she will not give him a true, honest answer. Look here at some women asking for advice what to tell him:

"I have been with my partner for 7 years (for 1 year he has been my husband). I love him with all of my heart. The truth is, he is small... the smallest I have ever been with. I tried to tell myself that didnt matter. Unfortunately when it comes to orgasming it does. I cant get off with him inside of me. We cant get pregnant and he doesnt ever work hard enough at 4play. He loves me too but he doesnt realize he has such a small dick because I have always made him think it was fine for me. It is too small but my 7 years of lying has made him selfish. Any ideas at correcting this now?"

"The other night my boyfriend and I were making love and he asked me if he was big enough for me. How do I answer that question? I’m worried if I answer the question it will hurt his ego and I’m the only girl he’s had sex with."

And here some advices they had from other women:

"Don’t tell him it’s small, but tell him you have seen bigger, but you like his better! good luck."

"I advocate honesty in every relationship, but this is one aspect where honesty will do you no favors. If you are satisfied with him (size and all) and willing to work on improving your sex life, don't tell him he's small. You don't have to lie and say he's huge either, just say you are satisfied by him (assuming it's true) and that there is a lot more to good sex than penis size. If he asks about previous partners, tell him you respect their privacy by not discussing what happened between the sheets. Take the lead in teaching him what you like and reinforce the positive aspects."

"Well be careful, tell him you prefer a smaller one over a big one reassure him that he is great an if it was any bigger it would hurt, he wants to know that he is pleasing you, thats his biggest desire is to please you cuz if he isn't pleasing you he doesnt feel comfortable you pleasing him."

Why Women Lie About
The Importance Of Penis Size

All men want to know if their penis is adequate to satisfy a woman. But who do you ask, your girlfriend, your wife? It is a fact that no woman will ever tell her partner the truth about his penis size (unless he is very well endowed of course) and this for various reasons.

• First of all, if a woman is interested in a man with a small penis (for other reasons than his penis of course) she wants to be nice to him and will try to flatter him. Obviously that won't work if she tells him in all honesty that his penis is a little undersized. A man whose penis is average or small wants to know how women consider his size, but he doesn't want to hear it from his partner.
   

• However, there is a more deeply grounded reason why women hide their preference for large penises. For the longest time women's sexuality was something that could never be discussed in public. While it is ok for men to talk openly about their sexual lust, women are trained to hide it. A woman who admits to men that she likes a big penis, is often viewed as a slut and men usually don't consider a slut as a potential long-term partner.

Therefore honesty is for most women not an option when talking openly about penis size. The Internet however has provided women with a way to speak anonymously as well. Many can now finally state their preference for larger sizes and penis forums are full of comments from women who air their desire for big penises. But despite the anonymity of the Internet, some women still can't let go their habits of feeling the need to please men's egos and they continue to argue that size doesn't matter.

Internet Survey

I found an internet survey in which women were asked to post their opinion about the size issue. (Sadly the comments are not on the site anymore.) Many women flatly answer that penis size is important and their comments are pretty much all the same: "Longer is good, thicker is better, longer and thicker is best."

But there are other women who try to be nice by saying that penis size doesn't matter. It is entertaining to see how in their attempt to explain the insignificance of penis size, they involuntarily demonstrate their underlying desire for larger penises as well. Check out their remarks (followed by my comments):

1. Ms.Sholinar "The turn on and turn off is in the mind. Some of the worst people in the world could be well equipped but I for one WOULDN'T want to have sex with any of these people."
   This woman obviously prefers a large penis above a small one. For her to not have sex with a well-equipped man he would almost have to be among the worst people in the world. Way to go girl! Her comment is similar to the statement I heard from another girl who says that she would make love to Tom Cruise even if he had only a two inch long penis. These are just attempts to confuse men because they mix-up different issues. Men don't ask women if good looks or nice personalities are preferred to big penises but if big penises are preferred to small penises.
    

2. Tg9: "A man with large genitalia who has no clue, nor desire, to please a woman is nowhere as a lover. A man who is sensual and eager to please is a fantastic lover and his penis size is of no consequence."
   There they go again, insinuating that well endowed men can't be sensual and have no desire to please a woman and small guys are all sensual loving people. Say it like it is girl, you want a big penis on a sensual and caring guy.
   
   PrincessButtercup: "Although size has its benefits, technique is far more important! What's the use of having a big worm if you don't know how to fish?"
   Another one trying to make the smaller guys feel better, again by insinuating that endowed men don't know how to use their penis. At least she is honest enough to admit that size has its benefits.
    

3. Dassa: "The size of the penis doesn't matter. Women usually get the most pleasure from other sources than the actual penetration. If the penis is too big, it can cause major problems and if it is too small, other techniques can be used. The bigger penis is more of a hassle."
   This woman first tries to pretend that size doesn't matter but then betrays herself by mentioning the words "too small". If size really didn't matter then a penis would never be too small. Just be honest about your preference lady and don't feel so guilty about enjoying penetration that much.
    

4. Skperry: "It's not the size, but pencil-thin ones aren't able to do much for me. Over all, I prefer them thicker rather than longer. But my biggest climax begins in my head, so it isn't totally the penis on which I rely."
   "It's not the size… but I prefer them thicker..." Enough said.
    

5. Sandstar: "Give me technique!!! Of course, utopia would be big-size AND big-talent! Don't forget, though, that great sex begins in the brain. How you feel about someone is the key to it all."
   First she screams technique, but quickly gives away that big size is equally important. Then she tries to make the smaller men feel better by mentioning how important it is for a woman to feel for the guy to enjoy sex, changing the subject from vaginal to emotional satisfaction.
    

6. Cat_Eyes: "No, it doesn't really matter, but it can still be important in some ways. A man can be too large for a woman so as to cause pain, or he could be too small for a woman and therefore make it less enjoyable to her."
   This silly girl confirms unknowingly that when a woman says, "it doesn't really matter", it really does matter.
    

7. Nancy_S: "The best wigglers win! I'm more oral anyway, and prefer a "medium" size. Guys, quit being so obsessed over size, if you have a great technique and tongue, the girls will not care... until someone with a better technique comes along!"
   This girl tops them all. First she pretends that technique (best wigglers) is the important thing. But she admits to be more oral and still prefers a medium size over a small one, hereby foolishly confirming that size is important to all women, even the oral ones. If an oral girl prefers medium size, a vaginal girl prefers …? That's right, you guessed it. And there are at least as many vaginal girls as oral ones. Yeah guys, quit being so obsessed, the girls won't care…, until someone with a better schlong comes along!
    

8. Kim: "For all you women out there it's not the size that counts, it's what he can do with it. My husband is 4.25" long and 4.5" around and he satisfies me fine. So what's this talk about size!!!!!!!!"
   If having fine satisfaction is enough for her then that is fine with me. Maybe if she ever experiences what a guy with eight inches by seven around can do to her, she might be the one doing all the talk about size.

The following request comes from several smalldicks, hoping to hear women say the truth about their dicks instead of trying to comfort them by lying.

Please stop lying

At a very young age men learn how to deal with the truth. They are told about their abilities, their limitations, what they are good at, what they are bad at. Even as childs they have to become aware of themselves. They learn to be strong, to accept they cannot have all their dreams fulfilled, they learn to be realistic when they think and act. People do not pity them for the hopes and dreams they cannot have fulfilled. Instead they are adviced to find other dreams that can come true. They will be disappointed when some dreams crash but they will find new alternatives instead. Boys do not cry, they deal with their problems and overcome them. They need to and they are brought up to do so.

But women assume that when it comes to his penis, he will be devastated and forever hurt if he finds out the truth about his little dick. And this is when the lies start.

The worst thing about the lies about how "big enough" or "nice" his penis is, is the confusion this is for him.

Because he already knows it is small. Hearing lies will only make it difficult to accept his dick. It is like giving hopes or promises to someone time after time, hopes and promises that never come true. The more the same hope, dream or promise never shows, the more it will cause disappointment and depression.

If he hears these lies from his gf or wife, the woman he should be able to trust in all kinds of situations, he will lose his trust for her when he realizes she lied.

She lies to be kind to him, hoping he will stop thinking about his small dick. She means well, of course but this is not the right way to help him or to be nice to him. In any other situation she would be honest, like all other people he met in his life when he wondered or asked for advices, opinions and help about other things than his dick.

He cannot suddenly be treated like a voulnerable little boy, just because it is about his dick. He needs and deserves the same honesty as he will have about other things concerning him.

He needs to hear it clearly: His dick is small, maybe too small. It might hurt to hear but he heard it before about other things. "Sorry, your grades are too low", "Unfortunately you don't play football well enough to join our team" and other rejections he had to accept.

The alternative, not saying the truth, will cause him pain, constantly and for very long time, because no matter how much he is lied to, deep inside he knows the truth about his little dick.

The almost comical thing is that he knows his small dick looks like the dick of a little boy. When he understands she lies to him to be kind, it feels like she treats him like a little boy. The lies will confirm that she also thinks he looks like a little boy,

Once he hears the truth clearly, he will start to adjust to it. He will find happiness with his gf/wife who told him, they can try new ways to have sex together. Some smalldicks become happy worshippers of their gf/wives and/or real men. Some become cuckolded hubbies or slaves. Some just continue a regular marriage or relation but with one problem less: They both know his dick is small and useless and none of them tries make or expects the sensations of a real penis.