Is it ever OK to be honest and tell a man he has a small penis?

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The answer depends on the man and the situation. In most cases, I always prefer honesty. Most men who have a small penis have already realized this fact. Those who a little shy about this fact may even ask up front if you think it's too small. "Too small" is of course calls for a subjective answer. You might think his penis is small, but not too small. If this encounter is purely casual in nature and you aren't likely to ever sleep with this man again, I wouldn't stop you from just ignoring his short comings and just open your mind and body and enjoy the sex. But I think it is good and healthy in the long run for him to know exactly where he stacks up. Believe it or not, some men who possess very small erect penises have no idea they are small. The problem stems from the fact that when flaccid, their penis is a normal 3-4 inches. But when erect, they don't grow much at all. Most men, unless they are regular porn viewers, are only exposed to the flaccid penises of other men. If they "measure up" in this respect, they think they are normal. Remember that honesty should always come with compassion. Yes, their penis is small, but perhaps that doesn't matter to you, or maybe they are really good with other aspects of lovemaking.

If someone special to you possesses a small penis, it is always best to discuss this fact openly with other aspects of your love life. If you are in love, you should be able to discuss anything with your lover -- especially sex. And if you are both thinking the same thoughts about his penis anyway, it's best to just get it out in the open and deal with it.

Kat

I have a small penis (4.5") and I prefer honesty. I dates a woman once and she try to tell me that I was large, which may have been done out of kindness, but it left me feeling as if she thought I was vain or stupid.

Mark

I'm only about 4.25in in length. I prefer honesty as well and I do get turned on when my wife tells me I'm small or little during sex.

Ton

I think the girl should express herself honestly when confronted with a partner's cock it would save a lot of time and slow motion heartbreak.

If she enjoys putting down a guy with a small dick, she should take her pleasure. If the guy likes the humiliation it will be fun for both. If not, the guy can zip back up. . .

A

My Wife often teases me about my smaller size (4 3/4" in length and thin) it turns me on and makes the little guy try harder. It also makes me try to perform better orally for her. She has kept me locked in a CB3000 the past 21 days.

Slaveslut

An ex_ girlfrend made sure she didn't only tell me that I've got a small penis but she let everybody else know when she shouted it out in public ''you've got a small c...''!! And I always thought it was on the big side because a girlfriend always told me so, well compared to her former boyfriends. Later on another girlfriend measured it at under five inches and went on to say her ideal size was ''8-9 inches!. No consolation there. But they all emjoyed it like hell. Two of them worshipped it - saying it was 'cute' and 'beautiful' and it was never out of of there hands or mouth or bringing them to multiple orgasms. Another one said it was 'absolutely perfect' for anal sex. Maybe large 'squidgy' balls and foreskin helped out. But those two girls had an effect and now I've become obsessed with men with small penises and women with small breasts and I'm aroused all of the time. Small is beautiful and I want women to worship my penis and at the same time tell me how its so small, that they dream about large ones during sex, and that they are are always looking for a guy with a large penis. But the truth at last explains why my penis was always slipping out, left too much slack in a condom, and always felt lost inside a women. Its worse because girls can see all of the large penises on the net and that is bound to make them hanker after them.

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